Memorial Planning Checklist for Iowa Families: A Step-by-Step Guide to Designing a Lasting Tribute
Planning a memorial is never just about stone or inscription—it’s about storytelling, family legacy, and creating a place of remembrance that will stand for generations. For Iowa families, a well-thought-out plan helps ensure the final tribute reflects the wishes of everyone involved. This guide walks you through the steps you can take before meeting with McCall Monument, so you feel prepared and confident when it's time to begin.
Step 1: Begin with a Family Conversation
Start by talking with close family members. Discuss your loved one’s personality, beliefs, and what type of memorial would best honor them. These conversations create a shared vision and help avoid confusion later in the process.
To help facilitate these talks, consider questions like:
What hobbies, career, or passions best represent their life?
Are there any quotes, scriptures, or phrases they often used?
What imagery or symbols come to mind when you think of them?
Is there a family tradition or heritage you'd like reflected?
These questions can spark meaningful ideas and direction for your design.
Step 2: Review Cemetery Rules
Reach out to the cemetery where you plan to place the memorial. Ask about their guidelines on monument types, materials, sizes, and any restrictions. Many cemeteries in Central Iowa—including Des Moines, Pella, and Newton—have specific rules families should be aware of. Additionally, military cemeteries often have more limited options and standardized formats for memorials.
Unsure where to start? We've worked with many cemeteries across Iowa and can help guide you through the specific requirements and guidelines for your chosen location.
Step 3: Choose the Type of Memorial
The shape and style of a memorial can express a great deal about your loved one. It also determines how much space is available for text and design. Take time to explore what styles resonate most with your family's vision and what’s allowed by the cemetery.
Here are some common memorial types to consider (and you can view examples in our memorial galleries for visual inspiration):
Flat Markers: Simple, elegant stones that lie flush with the ground.
Beveled Markers: Slightly raised, with a slanted face for easy readability.
Slant Markers: Upright with a slanted front, often placed on a base.
Upright Monuments: Traditional headstones that stand vertically and allow for significant personalization.
Benches: Functional and decorative, these create a peaceful space for reflection.
Companion Monuments: Designed to honor two individuals, often featuring unified design elements.
Custom Shapes: Hearts, crosses, books, and more—tailored to your loved one's story and style.
Step 4: Consider Granite Color and Material
While there are several types of stone used in memorials—such as marble, sandstone, or bronze—granite is the most popular and reliable option, especially in Iowa. Its durability makes it well-suited to the region’s weather, including freeze-thaw cycles and seasonal changes.
Granite comes in a range of colors, each with its own character. Some popular choices include:
Barre Gray – a classic, timeless neutral
Dakota Mahogany – a rich brown with warmth and depth
Jet Black – elegant and bold, often used for photo etching
India Red – vibrant and eye-catching
Explore our granite color gallery to see available options and choose what feels most meaningful to your family.
Step 5: Decide on Standard Text or Custom Design
Will you include just names and dates—or a favorite quote, scripture, or artistic engraving? Consider whether you want a custom scene, religious symbol, or military emblem. You might also choose a photo engraving, hand-drawn artwork, or a landscape that reflects your loved one’s favorite place. Sketch ideas or gather inspiration to bring to your consultation.
Step 6: Plan for Long-Term Care
Over time, even the most durable memorials require some level of care. Weather conditions in Iowa—ranging from winter freeze cycles to summer sun—can slowly affect a monument’s appearance. Regular cleaning and inspection help preserve the stone and its engravings.
Some designs, such as detailed etchings or photo engravings, may require more gentle care to maintain their clarity. Choosing a timeless design with these needs in mind can help reduce maintenance efforts down the road.
Planning ahead for basic upkeep ensures the memorial remains a lasting and respectful tribute for years to come.
Final Step: Schedule a Consultation with McCall Monument
Once your family has a vision, cemetery details, and design ideas in mind, it’s time to meet with our team. Bring any sketches, photos, or notes. We’ll walk you through the next phase—turning your plan into a lasting tribute. Give us a call.
Have Questions or Ready to Begin?
We're here to help you honor your loved one with care and dignity. Reach out to our compassionate team for guidance or to schedule a consultation.
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